10.12.2012

The Dissolution Series - Restating the Obvious

There is nothing more infuriating then you. I said it.  I own it. I mean it.

Consequences for your behavior. You are not a child. But it feels like you want to act like one. And if not a child than a selfish person. The bubble you have chosen to  live in now clearly defines you from the rest of us. You allow it to dictate your life, your relationships, your actions, your words. And by allowing this - we have reached the end. Walls have been built. Privlages taken away.

You believe in a system that caters to you. That your attitudes and beliefs are to be looked up to. That you are in control of us. And that no matter how hurtful you are we are to look to you with gratitude and thankfulness. This is not the case. You are not integral to our life nor do you bear any influence in who we are or who we wish to be. Never do we need to ask you for permission or of your opinon.

In this round a bout you have made it clear where you stand, appreciated. And also unbelievable. That for one relationship or even one honest conversation you are giving up 5 other  things.Five beautiful   things. This is what angers me the most. As a parent. As a grown up.

No one has ever called you out on your behaviour and because we have this is your reaction and solution. Fine. And our solution. That this is final and done. No more offers. No more conversations.